Dear Porsha:

Odettaafraser
2 min readJan 25, 2022
Porsha Williams

Dear Porsha,

Thank you for putting your life out there for everyone to talk about and learn from. I know it was not something that you chose, but, it is something that you will conquer.

But first, lay down your heavy load!

Let go and have no fears.

You’ve done it all. No matter what you do, they will think what they may, so stop pandering to the masses.

Not that you ever were, but the limelight has made you hyper-conscious of your choices. Not to mention all of the silly questions you’ve had to answer too, I must surmise!

The only choice that I want you to be concerned with is your future.

So, rise up and fear not to speak up. Trauma robs us of our voice, and our ability to think and see straight.

You’ve had highs, lows, and middle ground, so my desire for you is an increased ability to see through the norms.

The fakes; so, rather than look to be pleased, look to be satisfied; remember, godliness with contentment is great gain.

I am on episode two of your new show, and before I go any future, I had to stop to give you this tidbit.

Don’t be blinded by everyone trying to please you and pull the wool over your eyes; don’t ignore the grey areas.

It is your choice and your right to choose happiness. You know who have let you down.

And I see that you don’t waste time to let them lie to you any further.

You know that, I know that. It make take the rest of them time to come around, and I know that you’re wise enough to not waste time waiting around for them to grow up.

Everyone does not have to be in agreement right now, for you to be sure that you’ve made a godly decision.

You’re ready for the aftermath. You’re capable of dealing with it, as well. Do not forget your first love, and do take the time to instill into your children what life truly is about:

Love for God and then, self-love.

Then, let your neighbors reap the benefits.

I will thank you for it.

Love,

God.

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Odettaafraser

I’m a writer, designer and master’s level forensic psychologist; I write about current events, culture and mental health.